"don't you understand that (ostensibly!) trans people have to prove they have the right to be treated as a proper human being? which of course means ignoring the existence of genderqueer people, intersex people, and anyone else who doesn't slot into what cis people decree is the proper box in the gender dichotomy?"

......are you actually suggesting that gender may in fact be a malleable trait located along a complex continuum, rather than an immutable cradle-to-grave assignment to Camp A or Camp B? BUT THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING!